Andrew POE! Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Fuck me and my general stupidity with women in general. I find this girl's profile on Tumblr, I message her, and I get accused of 'stalking' her. I feel really bad that she would even think that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victator Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 if you can make someone uncomfortable without trying just embrace it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burgundy LaRue Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 if you can make someone uncomfortable without trying just embrace it. Indeed. Embrace your weirdness. You'll be ahead of this mad game we call life if you do. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patrick B. Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Should be my plan, then. Been socially awkward for as long as I can remember and have no idea(in my mid-30s) how to approach a woman I'm attracted to. Ugh...been in "don't even bother" mode for too long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MADCAP Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Maybe you "socially awkward" guys should approach women just like you do a man. When you approach a women, and the vibe you give off is, "I'm trying to talk to you because I want to fuck you", you've lost the match already my friends. Treat them as a person...and for God's sake, don't start trying to get all of her personal info out of her within the first hour of talking to them. Comes off creepy.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LooseCannon Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Fuck me and my general stupidity with women in general. I find this girl's profile on Tumblr, I message her, and I get accused of 'stalking' her. I feel really bad that she would even think that. Fuck guys who don't realize how stalker-ish this sounds. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victator Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Maybe you "socially awkward" guys should approach women just like you do a man. I like how you assume that they are just fine interacting with men. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MADCAP Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 How about interacting with someone that their familiar with. That sound better Vic? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarcosLoura Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 When you approach a women, and the vibe you give off is, "I'm trying to talk to you because I want to fuck you", you've lost the match already my friends. Wait. That's not the vibe you guys give off to EVERYONE? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MADCAP Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 When you approach a women, and the vibe you give off is, "I'm trying to talk to you because I want to fuck you", you've lost the match already my friends. Wait. That's not the vibe you guys give off to EVERYONE? Yeah, but when it comes off as rapey or predator-like, it's bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Z Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 How about interacting with someone that their familiar with. That sound better Vic? You mean talking to yourself in the mirror? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ace Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 When you approach a women, and the vibe you give off is, "I'm trying to talk to you because I want to fuck you", you've lost the match already my friends. Wait. That's not the vibe you guys give off to EVERYONE? Yeah, but when it comes of as rapey, it's bad. It leads to this, dontchaknow... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LooseCannon Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 When you approach a women, and the vibe you give off is, "I'm trying to talk to you because I want to fuck you", you've lost the match already my friends. Wait. That's not the vibe you guys give off to EVERYONE? Yeah, but when it comes of as rapey, it's bad. It comes off as rapey 99% of the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRGoldman Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 May I suggest that you guys start wearing polo shirts? I find when I say creepy, rapey things to women while wearing my sweet four horseman shirt bitches be crazy, but when I wear one of those cool guy salmon colored polos, I can basically say anything I want and everyone, dudes included, want to have sex with me. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victator Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Find it interesting the guys who go reading rape into things. More a reflection on them than anything else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LooseCannon Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Find it interesting the guys who go reading rape into things. More a reflection on them than anything else. That sounds pretty rapey to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MADCAP Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Yeah, because we're the maladjusted ones, right? I find more amusing that you're taking it personally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victator Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Not really, just interesting seeing how people view things. Sorry if I struck a nerve. Why do you think anyone involved on either side is maladjusted? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glfpunk Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 None of yall know shit, basically. Poe, the key is to not give a fuck about the outcome. Like when you messaged that girl on Tumblr and she replied that you were a stalker and then you came onto the message board to vent about her calling you a stalker. You have to learn to not give a fuck that she thought that and move on to the next one. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LooseCannon Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 If you have viewed her Tumblr multiple times since she called you a stalker, especially if you were checking to see if she complained about you, then you are a stalker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victator Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 The digital age is wonderful. Though I imagine old school stalkers have to resent it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glfpunk Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Everything is too easy now, including stalking. You used to have to get out there in the world and stalk for real. You'd have to adjust your posture and everything. A little hunch in the back is the proper stalking posture. Now you just sit at a computer. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victator Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 Sitting, whoa buddy. If I can't lay in bed and stalk, I'm not bothering. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MADCAP Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 If you step to a girl looking thirsty, she's gonna play you out, it doesn't matter how you look. I'm no prize, but confidence and delivery is key, and I've had more exceptional-looking ladies come into my life than I've had a right to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burgundy LaRue Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 If you step to a girl looking thirsty, she's gonna play you out, it doesn't matter how you look. I'm no prize, but confidence and delivery is key, and I've had more exceptional-looking ladies come into my life than I've had a right to. You're Sugaland Loc. You're supposed to have women throw themselves at your feet! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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